Did you meet a really nice guy, but felt zero connection? And now you don't know what to do? Read on for texting tips on how to let him down. A reader recently wrote to ask me if she should turn down a guy she thought was really great but wasn't physically attracted to, and if so, how. Telling someone "thanks, but no thanks" for their romantic interest is never easy when you're not feeling them, you have to let it go.